Need a little loving magic in your relationship this Valentine’s Day? Try this

Best-selling author, empowerment coach and Neo Tantra sex teacher Stella Ralfini launches an exciting online couples coaching course just in time for Valentine’s Day – Love Camp. Aimed at couples in an existing relationship looking to ignite a fresh spark or romance and as a way to build confidence for singles to find lasting love, Love Camp has something for everyone!

Why go on an online couples’ retreat?

Stella says: “After a tumultuous year, one thing we’ve all learned is there’s no time to waste on things not being right or being unhappy which is why it’s more important than ever to spend time on your love life to help rekindle the magic! Much more than learning how to be more loving an intimate, in the online series of positive, interactive Love Camp workshops, Stella reveals that Tantra is suitable for couples of any age or sexual persuasion and can heighten love, desire, passion and reignite dying sparks”.

What is tantra?

Tantra is a powerful but playful form of lovemaking which can help you loosen up inhibitions and give you fresh confidence. It’s this confidence that will help you be more open and successful in everything you do, too. Over the workshops you can indulge in the comfort of your own cosy lounge, bedroom or wherever you want – you’ll learn how to talk, share and massage your partner to make your love-making more fun and exciting. Everyone needs more romance in their lives and it seems spending more time together during the last year has made us more open to explore our feelings, even top our fantasy bucket list, which is where Love Camp could help you make a fresh start this Valentine’s day!

What will I learn in a tantra workshop?

Aimed at locating erogenous zones and how to subtly arouse them, here’s a taster of the massage technique. You will need an ostrich feather (or similar) and an egg cup filled with almond oil, mixed with three drops of essential jasmine oil.

1. Imagine your lover is lying on their stomach with their legs apart. Dip your finger in the oil mixture and visualise gently and slowly pinching their skin, starting at the back of the ankles. Gently pinch up the calves, thighs and buttocks. Start with the left leg then repeat on the right.
2. Imagine holding a feather and sweeping it up their inner calves, inner thighs and above. Visualise your touch. Feel how much love there is in your doing.
3. Imagine placing your hands on their coccyx and making tiny, slow circular movements with the padded part of your index finger. Stay there for fifteen seconds making tiny circular movements to activate the body’s energy field. This encourages release of inhibition in your partner. Continue this circular movement with the pad of your index finger, working between each vertebrae of the spine until you reach the neck. Use the thumbs to work gently into the base of the skull. Visualise your partner’s sigh of delight.
4. The next part of your Tantra massage includes the use of tongue, lips, index finger and thumb and induces strong feelings of desire but are techniques which Stella needs to show you.
   
   For now, memorise the above, practise on your partner and you’ll be ready for Tantra Love Camp!

How can I book?

Tantra Love Camp online workshops begin this Sunday, on Valentine’s Day, priced at £149, with some fabulous prize packages to win, too, worth £500! We also have a limited number of FREE spaces to give away to Soul & Spirit readers, so for your chance to register, visit the website.