Use our handy guide to attract the love of your dreams and find that special someone
We’re all searching for that special someone we can share our life with. A soulmate is someone we feel a deep and profound connection to, who we can be completely relaxed and ourselves with. The love between you is unconditional, and when we look into their eyes we feel a sense of being ‘at home’. A big part of manifesting love is preparing yourself for it by overcoming the emotional wounds and baggage that may be in your past. This is known as harnessing the Law of Attraction, which suggests that you attract people, events and experiences that match your state of well-being.
If you therefore focus on having gratitude for the love, companionship and joy you have in your life in the present moment, you will attract more of that into your life. If you focus on what you don’t have, you will send out a message of lack and these things will not happen to you.
Here’s how to harness the Law of Attraction and find the love you’ve been searching for…
State your intention
Begin the process of ‘living as if’. Make your daily actions mirror your belief in the Law of Attraction. You must start to believe that your soulmate exists and is already yours – you just need to find them. Listen to music that you would both enjoy and like in common, light candles for them, imagine them sleeping next to you. Eventually, they will arrive.
Believe in love. You can’t have a relationship that you don’t believe exists. If you have any limiting beliefs about what is possible in love, you need to start tackling them so you can move forward.
Forward plan. Buy tickets to a concert or event, or book a trip that is in the distant future, with the intention to take your beloved with you when you have met them.
State a clear intention to the Universe as to what you want delivered. Think on what you really desire in a soulmate and write it down in a list before releasing it to the Universe.
Deal with your emotional baggage to enable a more fulfilling love to come to you. Know your setbacks so you can let someone new enter your life. Recognise what you struggle with in relationships – this could be feeling trapped, being clingy, feeling as though you’re not good enough, etc. Accept those feelings were in the past and be more kind to yourself.
Practice more self-love. A soulmate is going to treat you the way you treat yourself, so the best thing to do is start to appreciate who you are. Take care of yourself in the best way possible and give yourself little treats or compliments that make you feel good every day.
Start living from your soul and embrace your authentic self.
Summon your soulmate spell
Perform this ritual before bedtime to draw your soulmate to you in your dreams
- Three almonds
- Three raisins
- A square of red cloth big enough to hold the almonds and raisins in a bundle
- A red candle
- A small glass of milk
1 Light the candle and gaze into the flame until you start feeling peaceful and meditative. Hold the almonds and raisins in your hands and visualise meeting your soulmate. Focus on how you will feel once you are with them. Hold this feeling in your heart.
2 Tie the almonds and raisins up in the red cloth. Blow out the candle, then drink the milk together with a teaspoon of honey. Place the red cloth with the almonds and raisins under your pillow, with the intention of dreaming of your soulmate. He or she will appear to you in your dreams. If you find it difficult to remember your dreams, you may want to keep a notepad by your bed to write events down. If you are unsuccessful in dreaming of your soulmate at first, keep trying this method and persevere. In time, your love will come to you in your night visions.
3 When you have seen your soulmate in your dream, say the following, “Spirits of union, angels of love, bring me the vision my dreams allowed me to see – my soulmate, when the time is right, so mote it be.”
Crystals to attract true love
Rose Quartz This gem is great for healing old love wounds and helps you to forgive lovers who have hurt you in the past due to its protective qualities. Wear it on a necklace, or place it on your desk or somewhere visible in your home. Recharge your Rose Quartz outside during a full moon so it can help keep your heart full of loving vibrations.
Malachite Recharge your soul so you can open up to love again with Malachite, which supercharges your heart chakra while bringing balance. It will help you to feel stable, safe and secure in opening your heart up to all types of love.
Green Jade If you’re ready to get your heart back out there and find the love of your dreams, Green Jade can help you in your quest. Jade attracts all-things harmony in love and life. Consider this a crystal wingman to stand by you as you put your heart back out there.
Amazonite If you’ve been dating someone special and want to enhance the spiritual connection between you, Amazonite is your go-to gem, as it helps encourage clear and open communication. This crystal reinforces a safe energy that will allow you both to trust each other and bond on a whole new level.
If you are desiring a relationship that feels fantastic, then your life must feel great before your soulmate comes into it. The more you enjoy your life, the more attractive you become to others