After the loss of her husband, Dr. Jamie Turndorf created a groundbreaking Trans-Dimensional grief therapy for reconnecting and making peace with the deceased. We spoke with her to find out what she believes is the secret to dealing with the passing of a loved one.
I don’t subscribe to the ‘move on‘ philosophy. We are not meant to move on from those we love; we are not supposed to stop loving and connecting with those who have passed.
Some mistakenly believe that continuing our relationships with those in spirit blocks us from moving on with our lives and loving again.
Nothing could be farther from the truth!
Our hearts are made to love.
Our hearts are big enough to love all those who walk the earth as well as those who walk in spirit.
We would never say to a mother you can’t have a second child because you still love your first child. Ridiculous!
Paradoxically, reconnecting brings us such peace and joy that we find it much easier to toss away the tissues and get back into this life.
To find peace, we must make a complete paradigm shift in how we understand death and dying.
The traditional Western approach to grief–grieve, let go and move in (in 6 months) only leaves the bereaved at a greater loss.
The only path to peace is to reconnect! So, the practical step we need to take is to learn how to reconnect with loved ones in spirit, which we all have the ability to do.