Intuitive coach, Sarah Dyer believes it’s time you became a ‘Yes Darling!’ and began your own love affair with life – and here she explains how…
Are you feeling your soul’s calling? Do you think you have to have it all figured out? Perhaps one minute it’s a “YES; I can do this … I know where I’m headed! I’ve got this,” but then … wait, “Oh sh**! This doesn’t feel right! But what if it goes wrong, what if it’s not the right thing for me, how am I going to make this work in any case? And what will people think? Oh the timing is not right. I will wait until …”
If there is one thing I know well, it’s this story. I played it over and over and over and over…again!
My self-love affair with life began in 2008 with 3 tickets to Thailand, Bali and South of France. As crazy as my intuition sounded, I knew I had no choice but to listen. I had just split up from a 17-year relationship, and had my own internal battle going on. My throat chakra was so blocked that speaking my truth was a struggle as I lived in fear of what others may think; I was a perfectionist and my self worth was at an all time low. So I played small, I wasn’t showing up as me; I was like a shadow artist, hanging around those that were shining their light out in the world but keeping mine dim.
I had to do something as my soul was aching. With my life changing events coming in spades, I hit rock bottom.
So, within a couple of weeks I was up in the air on the trail to nourish my own inner gypsy – this was the beginning of my love affair with life! I learnt a lot about re-connecting with my own inner magic, my inner gypsy – but are you connecting with yours?
My inner gypsey is loving, wise, highly intuitive, with a healing quality about her. She simply knows what is best for her, she has no problem shining her light out into the world and speaking her truth. She taught me:
“Feed your soul, live your inner gypsy and dance to Beyonce’s beats!”
Most of all, I learnt that we don’t have to have it all figured out. Our only job is to keep following what lights us up and to keep putting one foot forward, as this is how the miracles happen. When we do, we send a direct message to the Universe saying, ‘Ok, I’m ready!’
My journey taught me to express my truth by tapping into my gifts, to take my message out into the world and to know it is a universal one. I learnt that doing things that light me up helps me to maintain a high vibe and to manifest my true desires.
Here are my musings to help you start your love affair with life today:
1 Speak, think and write only what you desire but most importantly make an energetic connection not a mental one. Take a breath and tune into your body
2 First thing in the morning, frame the day with something you love and find your mantra
3 Tune in and always ask your higher self to connect with the higher self in others
4 Tune in to your body regularly when asking any questions to yourself, lay your hand on your heart and see how this feels
5 Buy yourself some flowers
6 Hit the yoga mat
7 Take time to connect with your inner gypsy
8 Walk in the park, ride a bike, get out in nature and meditate
9 Play music – find lyrics to raise your vibration
10 Make a date with YOU
11 Jump in front of the camera, even if it’s for your own watch to keep boosting confidence
12 Keep your energy moving – take baby steps that’ll take you outside of your comfort zone!
Do something everyday that helps you stay in a high vibe, and out of the clutches of the ego! Simple, I know. But we still need reminding sometimes.
We love to tune into what our true desires are. To create, to play, to travel, inspire, connect and be part of sisterhood with like-minded souls. We want to make a difference. So we are our message, we want to be showing up as our best self, looking and feeling radiant and leading with gusto!