When a relationship ends it can feel like one of the most painful experiences in the world – but there are also occasions when a parting of ways is actually a big relief! However, Radleigh Valentine wants to assure those who are finding themselves experiencing tremendous grief after a break-up that there is help…
The archangels are omnipresent beings whose main purpose is to be of assistance to us and to be messengers from God, Spirit, or the Divine (whichever word you prefer). Some think of the archangels as powerful beings who swoop in and rescue people in times of great need or near disasters. And this is true! However, the word omnipresent means that they are able to be in an infinite number of places at once. So the archangels can be helping you recover from your failed relationship at the same time that they are saving lives after a natural disaster. For that reason, you should never feel guilty or reluctant to ask the archangels for assistance! They are there for you 24 hours a day, 7 days a week for anything that can help you have a better life.
The archangels are known for their specialities. So I have chosen 8 super powerful archangels whose gifts are perfect for helping you to recover from the end of a relationship. The first 4 archangels are for helping you to heal from the past. The second 4 archangels are to help prepare you for a happy future. I’m listing the angels in the order in which I think you might like to work with them, but you can call on any archangel at any time whenever you’d like.
Archangel Michael is the angel of protection and he useful in severing energetic ties that bind us to ex-partners long after the physical connection is gone. When we love someone (whether they be friends or lovers) we create little cords of energy – they look a bit like cords of light.
These cords can make it difficult for us to recover from the end of a relationship. You may find yourself unable to stop thinking of your former friend or romantic partner. Archangel Michael has a great sword of light that he can use to cut those cords so that each of you may stand in your own individuality – and this can make healing easier.
Archangel Michael can also shield you in a beautiful, deep royal blue bubble of protection so that those energetic connections stay severed. Keep in mind that cords of true love can never be cut as those are infinite. So when you ask Michael to cut energetic cords, it’s only the unhealthy cords that get removed.
Azrael is the archangel that comforts people from great emotional loss and the grief that comes with it. His name means ‘whom God helps’ and he is one of the most graceful, most elegant archangels of all. His presence provides comfort and emotional support to all who call upon him. If you’re hurting, he’s one of the two archangels you might want to ask for help from during his time of sorrow.
This amazing archangel of light can help you in two ways. First of all, he has the gift of emotional healing, so while Azrael provides you comfort, Uriel can help you to heal once and for all from the sadness that you’re experiencing.
Archangel Uriel is also the archangel of epiphanies or ‘a-ha’ moments. So if you’re having trouble understanding why thing went down in your relationship the way they did, Uriel can provide insight that might also help you to get over your loss.
As you begin to get over the pain of your break-up, you will want to do forgiveness work (well, maybe you won’t want to but it’s a good idea if you do). It is natural to be angry for a short time, but to carry a grudge only hurts you in the long run.
Archangel Raguel’s name means ‘the friend of God’, and He can help smooth things over between you and your past friend or romantic partner so that things are at least amicable in the future. Or even if your desire is to never see that person again, Raguel can help you forgive and forget so that when you do think of them, the feelings are not unpleasant.
Something that I see a lot is that people get out of one challenging relationship only to get right back into another one. Frequently, the new person they’ve chosen is so similar to their ex that it’s amazing to everyone that they can’t see the similarities! These people are experiencing a pattern in the types of friends or lovers that they choose. If this is you, then you’ll want to break the cycle.
Archangel Jeremiel is the angel of life reviews. He can help you to see patterns in your friend-making and dating life so that you can choose new and different people that will make you happier in the long run.
This amazing and beautiful archangel is in charge of making everything in your life more positive. She can help you to drive away negative thinking as well as to see life in a much more pleasant light. She travels in a rosy pink light which is perfect as she allows us to see life through rose-tinted glasses (though in a very healthy way). With Jophiel, the sadness of the past fades away and the amazing opportunities of the future begin to shine down upon you!
This amazing angel is known for carrying our prayers to Heaven. Now that you’re clear about any patterns in your life that you no longer want to repeat, and now that you’re feeling much happier about yourself and life in general, it’s time to ask the Divine for what you want in your future relationships.
Ask Sandalphon to carry your very special requests for love and friendship right to Heaven’s door!
Raphael is most often known as the angel of health, but he is also the primary match-making archangel! Now that you’re certain about what you want in life, ask Raphael to lead you straight to your soulmate relationship.
Raphael knows the perfect people for your life and his emerald green energy is even the same colour as the heart chakra. It’s time for new love, new friends, and the brand new you that will come from having supportive, amazing people in your life!
About the Author
Radleigh Valentine is an internationally known speaker, teacher, and radio show host. He has published many projects with Hay House Publishing including the best-selling Angel Tarot Cards and The Big Book of Angel Tarot.